Also wanted to add that when doing 180's, so many guys get mixed up about the things she wanted him doing before she was done with the M. The timing is off for most of those things now. That is why your changes need to improve the man and father, first, instead of focusing so much on trying to be what she use to want. When the timing is right (meaning the relationship is right), your attention can be on pleasing her.
Most WAW'S get angry when the LBH waits till she is done and THEN he tries to do what she use to complain about. That is why they will say it's too little too late.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!