And the vast majority of us find out about these resources after the problems start...
Oh, absolutely. I swear that there are about 5 books that I'm going to insist my children read before even thinking about getting married.
And as I told my W when bomb dropped, so many of these thing could be so easily changed, because I love you and would do that for you, if only I had known. Of course, she wasn't listening by then...
