Well he came and visited with the animals a bit. I had put on a movie (Anchorman 2) just before he arrived and he sat and watched the whole movie. We barely spoke, then he said "I'm gonna go" and left. I had no expectations so it's ok, I'm not sad. It's just still so weird. He was cold and seemed down. Back to going dark again until the next payment is due. I am going to assume after the divorce is final and he's removed from my health insurance that I won't hear from him again. Is it considered pursuing if I email him with a happy birthday message in late April? He forgot my birthday but I don't think anyone else will know to wish him one and if he's depressed I thought it would be a nice thing to do.
Me - 42 exH - 56 Married 10.5 years Together 17 bomb dropped 1/6/14 signed papers 2/4/14 H moved out 2/22/14 D final 4/4/14 Dropped the rope 5/17/14 2 cats, 2 dogs
