He can try whatever he wants. You accept what you want, you reject what you don't want.

He can be angry, he will or won't get over it. It should have no bearing on what you do.

Someday in the future you might to come to place where you can accomplish what you both say you want. It's going to take work on both sides.

Has there been any discussion as to the terms? So far all I've heard is 50/50 custody. What is it you would have to capitulate on?


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss