A few points for your confusion as you rush towards filing:

Your wife lives in another state

You will still need to converse with her as part of co-parenting

You will still have a daughter

You are in no place emotionally to start dating...it really wouldn't be fair to other women if you started dating now.

Those things will not change if you file or not....So what is to be gained by rushing to file? Maybe your ego....

So your wife is b@lling one guy or the whole town.....it is irrelevant.

Take your time...work on you...stop playing her game...and then let her file if it comes to that.

"Be the changes you want to see in the world"