Melissa,

It sounds to me like he is angry because you took the control of the D away from him. My ex did the same thing; he had an A, didn't want to work on the R, told me it was over and he was moving on but when I moved out, he was pi$$ed and he made my life very difficult. When I met my current H, he cut off all contact between me and his 2 children (my D's siblings) even though I raised them for 5 years and their sister lives with me. We split up 12 years ago, I have been with my H 11 and he is still angry and bitter towards me even though he is remarried. Sometimes there isn't much you can do except laugh to yourself about the situation. I know you aren't there yet because you are in the heat of the battle but you will get there. He will probably be angry for a while, although his email does seem like he is trying to work through it and move forward on even ground. Hopefully he means what he said.


M 46
H 44
D 12 S 8
M 9 T 11
BD 2/15/13
"Makes sense to stay together" 5/12/13
Agree we are 'healing' 7/13
Definitely Piecing 9/13