You don't understand what my H is saying. He doesn't want to do this through attorneys. That's his whole point. I filed for S, that got the deal going. That's what pissed him off to begin with. We have been talking about things through our attorneys. That's why he is angry with me.
What is there to understand? He's angry, he can be angry. You have no control over that. You're angry, you can be angry. You can have control of that, if you want.
You seem to have a lot of fear about him being angry. There is a reason for that, I'm sure.
I'm not sure why his being angry (although I didn't see anger in his email) means you can't move forward with your A. Can you explain that so I understand it?
Counseling is a good idea but I'm not sure either of you are at a place to do that together.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
