Maybe your child asked, When are you coming home, daddy?
Maybe. That's not how my H described the situation.
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I agree that it would have been better to do it together. That didn't happen. I know you had mentioned doing that. Had the 2 of you talked about it? Why hadn't a time been arranged to do that?
Yes, we had discussed on several occasions that it was best to have these kinds of discussions together. It has not happened yet because every time we were going to talk to them, he would text me at the last minute and tell me he is too angry with me to talk to them together. I had a feeling this was gong to happen; it seemed to me he was looking for a way to talk with them without me there. If I was there, he wouldn't have put the blame on me.
Yes, he told them. It's over. It's been 12 hours.
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Call your attorney in the morning and get the deal going.
You don't understand what my H is saying. He doesn't want to do this through attorneys. That's his whole point. I filed for S, that got the deal going. That's what pissed him off to begin with. We have been talking about things through our attorneys. That's why he is angry with me.
me: 44 XH: 42 M 11 years D10 and S8 Bomb drop 9/27/13 D final 7/1/14