Thought I'd do a new thread as the title of my other is very negative - I hadn't realised at the time that I needed to "let go" of my H and marriage in order to move forwards and not just give up completely.
Since "letting go" of him and our marriage & telling him I've set him free I've seen such a difference it's been amazing! He wants to talk, he wants to connect, he slowly seems to be questioning his decision to walk away and has begun moving forwards emotionally himself which has meant he's feeling the pain of his decisions and then challenging them too. His attitude towards me has taken a huge shift too - this morning we did something as a family (his suggestion) and he's said several times that he "really enjoyed it" and he feels "free" and "less pressure" which confirms that my DB'ing is having a positive effect!
Just wanted to share, will continue to update
Divorce Final: Oct 2014
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