Originally Posted By: paul19510
Should I ask him if he is willing to go to some sort of C so that we can try to understand each other better, and hopefully that will help us and our kids as we go through this process?
M, I was told by my L that I have the right to request counseling as part of this process and have considered the idea as well. I don't see the point. if they're not asking us to do this....why would we pursue them to do this...? Just asking.


me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14