Maybe we can't. It's possible that we're both deadset in our thinking and there's nothing either one of us can do to change the other's mind and we should make a court decide who's right. But it can't hurt to try.

If you dont wanna see the reality and you want to keep thinking there is one who is "right" and another one " wrong" this situation might escalate to a nasty level...

Melissa you both are scared and you cant see this situation clearly, you come here not looking for help, you come here blind by your resentment and focussing in your fear...
How do you think you will get a different result if you keep doing the same?


When the student its ready, the teacher will appear...
Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me."
Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.