Ok, he is not following "you rules" do you think your actions are controlling?
Huh? It's not my rules. It's what the child psychologist we spoke with told us, and the various books we read, and pretty much everyone who knows anything about telling children about D. You tell them together, and you don't blame one parent or the other.
me: 44 XH: 42 M 11 years D10 and S8 Bomb drop 9/27/13 D final 7/1/14