Melissa - I'm sorry you're dealing with such an angry H right now. I know it s*cks. For me, staying angry takes a lot of energy and so I'm really not able to maintain for long. Even now, I only really get angry with my H when I can see that the situation is clearly affecting my D. If you stay pleasant and upbeat and use the "casual neighbor" kind of approach with your H, do you think he'll really stay angry for an extended period of time? Even if he does, it really isn't your problem. If he wants to believe something that is false, it doesn't affect what you know to be true.
