From what i've learned by reading on these boards, most MLC'ers do have EA or PA. Hopefully one of the vets will chime in and give you advice. I think you need to focus on you and pretend she doesn't exist, be the best you that you can be - someone only a fool would leave. Act as if you'll be fine without him. GAL and let him see your confidence. Read the MLC resources - they are full of good information. Breathe, eat, exercise, sleep. Take one day at a time, I know it stinks. Detach.
Me - 42 exH - 56 Married 10.5 years Together 17 bomb dropped 1/6/14 signed papers 2/4/14 H moved out 2/22/14 D final 4/4/14 Dropped the rope 5/17/14 2 cats, 2 dogs