When to Give Up?

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Thanks, it's been an emotional day today.

I know time & space is what's needed, I'm quite sure his feelings will resurface at some point, it's hard but I know I just have to let him go through this journey on his own. I'm just glad he's moving forwards emotionally as up until now he has been stood still with his head in the sand - tonight we cried together, he let himself be vunerable which is a huge step.

I also realised that our marriage as it was before is beyond saving, I would want a NEW relationship with my H not our old one, so it makes sense to let go & draw a line in the sand.

I hope one day he's ready and willing to invest in our marriage, regardless of that I need/want to get myself to a good place and find my identity again too.