Okay, I know no snooping...I just needed to know how long this has been going on. Seems like they started texting here and there at the end of Jan. 3 1/2 weeks later he doesn't love me anymore and wants to separate/divorce (eventually because he didn't move out right then). Their conversations have gotten progressively longer and longer. Never calls, just texting. They are always on days when I am either at the gym with the kids, sleeping, or he is away from us.

So, yes, I can say for sure there is an OW and an EA...at the very least.

And with that, I am done with my snooping. I know and now I can move forward with the correct information.

What do I do next?


Me: 33 / H: 36
M: 10y / T: 14y
3 kids
BD: 2/22/14
Live in separation 3/8/14
H consult lawyer, says filing asap 4/24/14
H moved out 4/25/14
2nd time around. 1st separation 4y ago lasted a month