When to Give Up?

[Upwards]

He's just called round & we sat and talked for ages - he's been very honest & said he's really feeling it now and is struggling, he said his respect for me is coming back and that his resentments are less than they we're but he's carrying so much guilt from what he's put me through (and the kids) and thinks that's playing a big part in it. He said he's not fit to be in a relationship and that although he misses his family very much he doesn't feel able to commit to us right now.

I'm just glad he's being open, past few weeks he's really opened up and wanted to talk about everything instead of blocking it out & shutting down.

I miss him a lot, but I've let him go because I know I have to, if he comes back then at least that's because he WANTS to and if not then I hope he'll be happy.