One year in but a newbie

[Lifes Twists]

Thanks Mr Bond I agree that reality is creeping up for her. She still clings to this idea that she is going to be able to help the girls with college expenses when she can't even put a little money in my oldest account for spending at college or buy her a birthday gift for her 19th birthday.

I agree Paul, it did not sit well with me either. I talked to her today and explained that I saw it as a 7 year commitment as that is how many years before my youngest would be out of college as she is a freshman in high school right now.I told her that that was a long time and I did not feel comfortable with that kind of arrangement. I said I was moving on with my life and would really be unfair to us if we tried to do that. Her response was that it would be a while before the house was finished and sold and we should wait and see where we were at then.