I think I belong here....

[praying_in_GA]

I have had a semi good day. Took my oldest to her gymnastics meet. (she did amazing!) He is working an all day event for her gymnastics fees.

Found out the OW took a course to get her motorcycle license (H wants a motorcycle now). She is joining the Navy as soon as she graduates. (H wants to join the Navy now) She is 15 years younger than him.

To be honest, no matter how strong I am pretending to be, I am just devastated today. I know exactly why he has turned to her. She is giving him attention and that flutter he misses from our marriage now. She is probably fawning all over him and he is eating it up. I understand his excitement in this new girl.

Please, someone give me some words of wisdom or encouragement. I am on the verge of tears here.