I will respond more later but just can't to clarify that it is my H that wants to be friends now and even after divorce. I am fully aware that we cannot be friends now due to OW. My hope is that we can at least be civil in the future. I know that will likely depend upon how H handles the OW and potential D and everything that would entail. I am definitely more realistic than H who pictures himself as part of our old family while having a second family.
