Originally Posted By: MrBond
Forget about cake eating.

What YOU decide to do during the time that you are together is up to you. You can either use the time to re-build connections with him, or you just drop the kids off and do your own thing.


I'd love to spend time & connect but also feel like a mug cos I know afterwards he'll walk out to his "freedom" and I'm left here, if that makes sense. I suppose it's about finding a balance isn't it?


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