Originally Posted By: labug
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I need to transform what is happening with my situation into a "gift" or a lesson.


The only thing you can do is to keep working on you and letting go of your attachment to your W. The gift part will come if you do your work.

About the coffee thing...do you think you're ready for a new R? You seem to be in a really vulnerable place right now.

Hi Bug! I am not looking so much for a Relationship per se as just starting to socialize. I agree, I'm in a weird place at the moment. I am more raw than I realized. its nice that I saw "in the moment' that my previous experiences with W were translating into the present. Still more work to do smile

thanks for walking along with me today.


me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14