WH,

S also told H he knows it is H's fault. H told S to write a letter explaining his feelings. S said he didn't know what that was supposed to accomplish.

If I were S, I'd be leery of writing the letter. Who knows what H will do with it? Use it against you in the Court or call up GAL...etc. Remember that we cannot rationalize with Crazy?

Please advise S that he does NOT HAVE TO write the letter at all. H heard S the first time around! Shame on H for ignoring his feelings/thoughts.