Thanks Ye21 ...i just went back to look at Sandi's rules ..i need to talk less, act as if and not show how i feel when she says something ..those rules are to make the W think we are ok moving on with our life with or without them but my W clearly knows I want this M to work...i just put a RetroV weekend in my Google calendar (i mentioned it to her and she said she didnt know what it was all about it and may decline the invite) but so far she hasn't accepted or declined which I guess is good.


Me: 47
Her: 45
M 18 years
T 22 years
S-6 D-9
Separate rooms 1/5/14
Wife filed for divorce 2/5/14