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I suppose you are right that if she files D does she have to be nice. I guess if she didn't file she wouldn't have to be nice. I guess I didn't file so I don't know if i would be nice in her shoes. But my natural tendency is to say how are you? Did you have a good sleep? If she's treating some medical issue to ask how it's going...but Sandi's rules are to detach, you say it's not hard but I find it is ..I've been with this woman for 22years. I know i got to do this...