You keep doing the same and you get the same results.... Are you going to work on changing that anytime?
Sandi rules...hard to follow them right? Its not hard, its a choice man. And you dont want to choose that because you keep focussing in something: you have a way to fix this....if I go to the DMV the rule is to get a number and wait on line if I dont follow that rule they kick me out....
In love there are no rules...if she files for D why she has to be nice? Because you are hurt and only that response will make you feel more at peace?
Again and again, let her do whatever she wants, you are controlling and you dont want to let go....you think you can "fix" your W... There is no responsability on you to fix her....do you want to fix my M? Do you want to fix my life? My economical situation?
Come on man, read this
Removing the Victim
Don't others see how much I'm hurting? Can't they see I need help? Don't they care?
The issue is not whether others see or care. The issue is whether we see and care about ourselves. Often, when we are pointing a finger at others, waiting for them to have compassion for us, its because we have not fully accepted our pain. We have not yet reached that point of caring about ourselves. We are hoping for awareness in another that we have not yet had.
It is our job to have compassion for ourselves. When we do, we have taken the first step toward removing ourselves as victims. We are on the way to self-responsibility, self-care, and change.
Today, I will not wait for others to see and care; I will take responsibility for being aware of my pain and problems, and caring about myself.
Start taking care of yourself man, let her people choose their path and trust me if they dont like the way things go, they will change that path...who that chooses to be unhappy its sole responsable of the way things are...
When the student its ready, the teacher will appear... Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me." Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.
