So the other night S Had a soccer game. He normally has to be there a half hour before the game starts to warm up. I went to the venue right after work so I was there early. H and the kid's were not there yet. I sat with a few other moms and they had not seen them yet. Time kept ticking down and no kid's. I was starting to get worried. Then 15 minutes Before the game in rushes S looking rather upset. One of the moms noticed this and I said yes, he's mad because he is late. A few minutes later H and D walked in. I waved at D and she came over by me. H made some excuse about how he had to get the kid's dinner and blah blah blah. He was overly nice. I knew something wasnt right.
So after the game I congratulated S and walked with him for a bit. I asked him why he was late because I knew H was lying. He tolde he would tell me tomorrow. So last night S told me there was a huge fight with H, S and D. S ended upset and told H he was angry because of the situation with H, me and OW. S told H we used to have a happy family and now we don't have that anymore and mom did everything she could to keep it together. S also told H he knows it is H's fault. H told S to write a letter explaining his feelings. S said he didn't know what that was supposed to accomplish. I said I'm not sure either. About a half hour later when we were eating dinner D came up to me and told me I was better than Dad because I don't yell at them and dad is just mean to them. I said I was sorry to hear that.
So I guess things are not hunky dory in the home. I wish I could do more for the kid's.
WH
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"
