I am having a tough time with trying to split tasks up so I can have more of my own life...our lives are so entwined ...this morning W says you can take and pick up kids from school those days then and she'll get them the other days ..well that doesn't make sense for me to do it since it's on her way. I said we'll talk about it later...didn't feel like getting into with kids around. She mentioned that her sisters hamster died and I said oh I didn't know they had a hamster and I asked whether she knew .. she then goes crazy on me saying how would she know blah blah ..then she says why do you always look at me ..huh..i said why are you always looking away from me ..she says I can't stand to look at you ..sheesh ..then she was on the couch and I saw the sores on her foot that she has been putting medication on and I asked how it was working ...she covers them and says don't worry about my feet. ..i said ever since you filed your attitude has got to the point where it's not easy even being here and it would be nice if she could at least be a little nice ...she said nothing ...said she was off to tan and would be showering when she got home and asked if I could shower while she was gone so we could get to daughter's gymnastics on time. I said sure ...Looking forward to seeing how the rest of our day will go :-/


Me: 47
Her: 45
M 18 years
T 22 years
S-6 D-9
Separate rooms 1/5/14
Wife filed for divorce 2/5/14