I had to email H about the bills due (his health insurance) and he responded that he would like to come by tomorrow and visit with the pets. I have not responded yet, was going to wait a few hours. I need to mentally prepare for this. I guess my actions should be confident, don't ask questions, smile, be friendly, let him control the conversation. I know it's not a date but I have not had any contact with him for almost 2 weeks and it was only 5 minutes then. I know it is too early in my sitch so NO EXPECTATIONS. I will re-read some of the material here to prepare. Any advice would be appreciated. smile

Me - 42
exH - 56
Married 10.5 years
Together 17
bomb dropped 1/6/14
signed papers 2/4/14
H moved out 2/22/14
D final 4/4/14
Dropped the rope 5/17/14
2 cats, 2 dogs