25 I think that post will be valuable for so many of us! I just watched the "fake it till you become it" TED talk. I am/was famous for the superwoman pose and h hated it so I spent years doing the opposite to not seem threatening.

I have a lot to think about regarding the dynamics of our relationship past and present. I am sure I will muse about it later on my thread but for now back to Melissa

Melissa I am sure I have said this before but thank you for being so open and transparent with your process. It is very brave to put it all out there

Me 44 H 42
M 10 T 12 (at time of BD)
Ss 20 16
S11 (special needs)

BD 9/13 H "unhappy for years" moves to seperate bedroom
10/13 EA/PA confirmed but denied
S and I move out 3/15