Rock I went through the same thing. One day doing family things and the next day doing things alone and feeling torally lost. But one day you wake up and say hey this doesnt feel so bad. And kind of like it. Be patient. For the women thing b careful. When I started dating I couldnt believe the number of lonely people looking for a partner. Many had left their S for greener pastures. Take your time
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
Their are a lot of advantages to being single. I am not single but was for a while and somedays I still miss it. Enjoy your single life and plan fun stuff to do. Live life to the fullest. You do NOT need someone else to do that.
As for the other women that you metioned in your post....
YOu are going to find a lot of women out there that are just broken on some level. You have been on these boards for a while so your "I can detect broken" sense are in full swing. You can see it for what it is and you know that you do not want it. This a good thing.
As for your comments about marriage....
Personally, I do not worry about getting "married"...I worry more about ensuring that I have a "healthy" relationship. That to me is the most important thing.
Peace, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
