Last night I suggested that I'll make the kid's school lunches in the morning on Monday Wednesday and every other Friday and she do Tuesday, Thursday and the other Friday. W says you don't want to take care of your kids? Huh..i said i have been doing it everyday because you have to go to work in the morning. She did say are you still getting my coffee and things together and I said no. I said you filed for D so I need to take care of myself and we should split certain tasks - probably shouldnt have said that. W says "our relationship has always been about you ...taking care of your needs". I just walked away as i could see where things were going ..another argument.


Me: 47
Her: 45
M 18 years
T 22 years
S-6 D-9
Separate rooms 1/5/14
Wife filed for divorce 2/5/14