Is it true that they may have to be away for a long time (i.e. divorced) to let some of the old hurts fade so that the good rises to the top? Or am I wishful thinking?

This is true, time will heal that anger for some people.... That doesnt mean she will come back....we dont know whats gonna happen but only time apart will help one way or the other.... Do you see how when she does something still affects you? Thats your way to measure how things go...once whatever she does has no effect on your mood then you migh be able to get back...thats basically the way it is


When the student its ready, the teacher will appear...
Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me."
Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.