Planet I hear your pain, do you feel the need to help her? As Paul very well told you we sometimes repeat and repeat and its sometimes because we dont allow ourselves time enough to figure it out the best way to love ourselves...
I am in a place of pause in my R with my W now and I have been discovering things about myself, now all I want its to enjoy this time and spend time doing things for myself, I know I am lovable and everyday I confirm that more and more, but I am realistic and know that now I cant offer my full self to a R.
Just be gentle with yourself and honest and if you cant offer her a R now just walk this path single, it will be everything fine
When the student its ready, the teacher will appear... Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me." Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.
