"watch that you are not going against your values/instincts as a Mom. In the first couple of months of DBing, I was trying so hard to 180 that I think I went a little too far in agreeing with my H about parenting things. (One of his complaints was that I didn't support his parenting style and I would disagree with things he did/said.) I regret that now . . . I went against my own parenting instincts to the detriment of my children. "
To be fair, you know us fathers also have instincts too when it comes to raising kids. The mother's way isn't always the "right" way.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.