I guess on Monday I will not make her lunch and iced latte in the morning...oh boy ...i wonder what she's going to say ...i hope I'm making the right decision

She can say whatever she wants and you....accept it and keep moving on with your life wink

Look at this: my W has always being critical with me, when she left the house she asked to separate phone lines, sprint asked me for a $100 deposit and my phone broke that same day so I ended purchasing a brand new iphone 5s wink
Today sprint called me saying that my "exW" has called them asking to separate accounts and if they cant do it in a easy way to say that my phone was lost or stolen and to cancel my number...after I spoke with the guy he agreed to look into that and give me a response on monday of the steps to take so I can keep the phone number and access to a brand new phone and have a new account....

My first tough was....what a b**tch how can she do that?
Now this is the way I see this...there might be many reasons why she is doing this and I am accepting them and let them flow around, the most important thing to focus on? Not to loose my number so that is basically my priority at this point.... To TAKE CARE OF MYSELF despite her efforts to not allow that....

With all this I am trying to show you that the most important thing its you and nobody else and if you want to have a happiest life you have to take care of yourself no matter what your W does. Might she get upset? Yes and a lot...is that your problem? No at all, she is not going to respect you untill you respect yourself and the more you postpone that the more she is going to take advantage of the situation....
As I said she will have one day to respond to herself for all the behaviours she is developing right now, maybe with you or maybe with somebody else but all those patterns she is learning now will be evenctually be turned against her...

Act in the appropiate way and dont be affraid of her reactions, they are her reactions and she owns them as well as the consequences.

When the student its ready, the teacher will appear...
Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me."
Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.