Thanks 3boyzmom ..yeah I'm not just doing it for her. Of course if I made dinner for me and the kids at 6, I wouldn't be getting hers at 8. I make coffee in the morning for both of us ..i will just "follow her lead" as you put it.
Me: 47 Her: 45 M 18 years T 22 years S-6 D-9 Separate rooms 1/5/14 Wife filed for divorce 2/5/14