Doogie called me at work today and did force the issue about my opinion on the topic of D or S. I basically said you have arrived at your decision, I haven't had time to catch up to where you are. Follow your heart whether D or S makes sense more to you. Same goes for whether and where he should move out in the interim. I did say I want to thank you for the courage to be honest and I know now that all our lives, our children's lives, are going to be happier and healthier because of this experience. You opened the door, Doogie, walk through it. I am considering myself off the hook now and do not intend to initiate R talks or reiterate again.
LL 43 H 51 T 8 M 6 SS 17 15 S 6 D 3 H MLC started early 2013-think earlier actually, when BFF almost died mini-BD 8/13 separate rooms IDLYA, demands D ASAP 1/14 DR,DB,180s,LRT,GAL since mid Feb So confused