Doogie called me at work today and did force the issue about my opinion on the topic of D or S. I basically said you have arrived at your decision, I haven't had time to catch up to where you are. Follow your heart whether D or S makes sense more to you. Same goes for whether and where he should move out in the interim. I did say I want to thank you for the courage to be honest and I know now that all our lives, our children's lives, are going to be happier and healthier because of this experience. You opened the door, Doogie, walk through it.
I am considering myself off the hook now and do not intend to initiate R talks or reiterate again.


LL 43 H 51
T 8 M 6
SS 17 15
S 6 D 3
H MLC started early 2013-think earlier actually, when BFF almost died
mini-BD 8/13 separate rooms
IDLYA, demands D ASAP 1/14
DR,DB,180s,LRT,GAL since mid Feb
So confused