ether and I do the same stuff like making W coffee in the morning, packing her and the kids lunches, dropping the kids off at school or picking them up, taking kids to dr appointments, etc etc.
Stop preparing her coffee, cooking for her, is she handicap? If she is not that means she is totally capable of cook for herself, clean her mess, take care of kids, and do whatever she needs to do to stay alive...
Its time for her to take care of herself and for you to stop doing all that, cook for your kids and do things for your kids and let her choose her lunch and her life and if she doesnt and stops eating, drinking water, taking showers or cleaning her mess...thats her choice not yours...so stop choosing for her
When the student its ready, the teacher will appear... Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me." Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.
