Well, I would like to add a suspected EA to the mix. She is a classmate of his in her early 20's. He has talked about her before and I think they are texting a bit. His nursing class always texts and gets together to study. Being one of 7 males in his class means he is surrounded by females but he has always mentioned this one girl. She is his FB friend and 'likes' or comments on just about everything he posts...even pics of him and the kids. Now he has started liking her stuff as well. She went to his high school and they are both really into fitness. I'm just getting little warning bells going off in my head. I am sure it has been building over the last two months because this semester they have all of their classes and clinicals together....there is still 6 more weeks to go.

A week ago I asked him in a playful way: "Is there anyone at school I need to be jealous of?" He got this goofy smile on his face and his cheeks turned a little red. I said "There is, isn't there?!" (still in a playful way). He said: "That wouldn't make sense for me. School is almost out and I am joining the Navy so it wouldn't make sense to get involved with someone now." He has told me before that she is nice. That she was sad at school because that was supposed to be her wedding day but they called off their wedding when he cheated on her. They obviously spend a good deal of time together at school.

Anyway, I know...no snooping, no asking, just let it go, right?


Me: 33 / H: 36
M: 10y / T: 14y
3 kids
BD: 2/22/14
Live in separation 3/8/14
H consult lawyer, says filing asap 4/24/14
H moved out 4/25/14
2nd time around. 1st separation 4y ago lasted a month