It gets easier...My ex and I are friends now. It took a while for me get to that point (1.5 - 2 years).

Me: 39
W: 44
SS 24
SD: 20
M: 13
T: 15
Bomb: 2/16/11
EA: 2/14/11
Papers Signed 4/13/11
Divorced 5/13/11