planet. great observations. do you feel like history is repeating itself? I get that sense from what you posted. let yourself be happy. maybe let yourself enjoy this person's friendship. You never know, it might be just what you needed smile My 2 cents

me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14