I've lived in Munich and Stuttgart, and work there quite a bit still.
Do you know that he is coming with papers or is it just a fear?
You need to think about things beyond him, outside, positive things, fun activities, GAL.
Real means saying what do we do now, that you feel hurt, and maybe ask how he feels, but that is R talk and very dangerous. I bet he is feeling lost and hurting too, so maybe some defusing somehow of this will help. Please read other people's threads and posts for more ideas (I am no expert!).
Make him help with cooking?
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