Okay, so I'm starting a new thread because I feel like I'm on a different battle field now. W walked out almost 5 months ago and in that time has gone from not wanting to talk to me outside of managing our S to wishing she felt differently, but doesn't. She feels like we are good friends now and cares greatly about me but not in love with me.

In my perspective, this is the friend zone. I was afraid of this because I don't know that I can be good friends with this woman after 9 years of marraige and her WAW handling of our M. Is this a good thing or a bad thing and where does this situation typically lead?

Also, does this require a change in tactics?


M: 43 W: 43
Married 6 yrs.
T: 7 yrs.
Son 20, 18, 17, 15 yrs. (w/ Autism), 12, 10