Need help saving my family - part 6

[ye21]

Ok... Its cool
If you want to save your M why you want to follow your way as "the way?"

How many times did I judge your behaviour or thinkings or choices? None right? Thats correct, I accept you the way you are, completely how you are....
Do you? Do you accept when you do a "mistake" do you think that thats the way it has be at that point and its fine?
Can you accept that the way you show yourself and the energy you show its what it might be making your W not be receptive ?

What you had tried it didnt work, neither made you feel happier, neither mad your W sees you in a different way... What are your options now?
You can divorce and f your W out of your life, and tell everybody how crazy she was and what a B**tch and whatever you want.....
Then you find another woman and want to marry again....she leaves you again....another B*tch...woman jus svcks right?

Your M will be whoever you wish, but I have the feeling that you are giving up because of fear....and you want to make this more agitated because you feel that is making you feel better.... Thats only in the short time, all you are doing today all this actions will have consequences...and you are acting in a way that you are the one who will have to face those consequences...

I dont have kids but you do, and this is something you might want to think about it...one day one of your kids might approach you and say:

Dad why you fought mom like that? Why you changed locks and treat her like that? Why you did that to yourself if months earlier you loved her? Why you did that instead of just accepting her the way she was?
Why were you so obsessed in being "right"? Dont you see that no matter what, we carry your blood and we will always love you even if we weren't with you? Nobody could replace our biological father...

I want you to see that now you are choosing, not right or wrong...just choosing