Thank you Lost!, Its been a difficult week. Just trying to stay focused. I have been secretly looking at my options. Like what I can do with our house. Have not moved on anything, but just looking at the options. Her asking me about what I thought about the house, makes me think she is thinking about it. I don't need to share with her what I found out, but at least now I have a better idea of what in reality are my options.

I am just trying to keep my eyes forward. Focusing on what I CAN do. Sent me a text last night to let me know she would not be coming home because she was sick. Why I should I care. I know because she wanted sympathy or something. Said she just wanted to let me know, and to make sure the dogs would be all set. I don't buy it. IC pointed out that I always want rescue her, and make the decisions. That she is probably used to that and is expecting it. So, I am not doing that. I couldn't think of a response that wouldn't, A. say ok to what she is doing, B. show sympathy to her being sick, C. let her know its ok, that I had it covered. So, I did not send a reply. Why should I?

I just went about my business. That's what I will try to continue with.


Me:36
Her:35
together 11yrs
M 7 1/2yrs
lived together 10yrs
2dogs 2cats
Mortgage on a house

bomb dropped 01/12/14
Separate bedrooms/W stays here some nights
I want to stay married