I'm gonna say it was a mistake to call at all. That attempt to let her know you were home via text was a maybe...honestly I'd have just left it, but then the continued attempt to just make sure you could get in touch is definetely controlling feeling. I did something similar once out of concern, so I told myself, and that was the day my W said she was absolutely certain she wanted D.

But lets be honest, it is controlling. Can you tell me that no where in your mind did you want to confirm where she was?

M: 43 W: 43
Married 6 yrs.
T: 7 yrs.
Son 20, 18, 17, 15 yrs. (w/ Autism), 12, 10