Tomorrow he officially moves out. It feels like we are one step closer to divorce.

I've been spending the time working on myself right now. He's not in a place where he wants to "work" on things.

We plan to talk later today. I have gotten to the point at which I'm ready to tell him that if he's not ready to work on things then I give up and I'm moving on. Moving on likely means moving to the other end of the world with the kids, which I know is selfish. Should I fight the urge to tell him I'm moving on?

Thanks for all the advice thus far!


M- 4
T- 6
S- 2m
D- 2y