No matter what, once in your life, someone will hurt you. That someone will take all that you are, and rip it into pieces and they won't even watch where the pieces land. But through the breakdown, you'll learn something about yourself. You'll learn that you're strong. And no matter how they destroy you, that you can conquer anyone. You doing the right thing by filling! I'm not there yet, but thinking about going that route soon.
Our deepest wishes are whispers of our authentic selves. We must learn to respect them. We must learn to listen. The remedy for most marital stress is not in divorce. It is in repentance and forgiveness, but it's unfortunate that's not the case with most marriages of nowadays.
