Thanks Mel smile I'm focusing on my kids and myself more and more. It feels very odd to not be including my W in those plans, thoughts, etc, but it's the new reality. I'm no longer asking for my W's permission with our kids but telling her my plans instead. It's going to be rocky but it has to happen.

We'll see how things go with my L. If she impresses me in the next bit then I'll stick with her but I'm still a bit skeptical. Time will tell. I've heard my L is a real tiger so that's what I need.


Me-40,W-37
D7, D5, S3
Separated Oct 3/2013
T 11 YRS
M 7 YRS